Raise your hand if you’ve ever experienced a rejection. *raises both hands* Rejection is impressively versatile. It can show up in your inbox, on a waitlist, in a breakup text that starts with “you didn’t do anything wrong,” or in the form of being ghosted. Unfortunately, it is an unavoidable part of life and something we will all experience at various times. And when it happens repeatedly or in a stressful time, it can start to feel personal, overwhelming, and even identity-shaping (and not in a good way). People love to offer “comfort” in the form of telling us “don’t take it personally” but our brains tend to immediately respond with what ifs that make us doubt ourselves, our abilities, and our worth. Before you spiral, rewrite your life narrative, or decide this one rejection confirms all your worst fears—let’s talk about how to handle rejection in a way that protects your mental health. No toxic positivity. No pretending it doesn’t hurt. Just real tools for not letting on...
"When Life Feels Messy..." is a multi-faceted project put together for TWU students, staff, faculty, and the community at large, with the mission to increase mental health awareness and advocacy. Join us each month as we delve into a new mental health topic and have those discussions that aren't the easiest to have. Interested in more content? Listen to our podcast at: https://anchor.fm/when-life-feels-messy